THIS IS IT.
You don't need another person telling you what to do. You need to hear yourself again.
THIS IS IT.
THIS IS IT. is a private three-session experience designed to help you get out of the mental loop, uncover what you actually want and move toward a decision that feels like yours.
You know something needs to change…
Maybe it's your job. Your business. The direction you're heading in.
Maybe you can't even put your finger on what needs to change yet.
You just know you can't keep having the same fucking conversation with yourself.
Should I stay? Should I leave?
Do I actually want this — or do I just think I should want it?
Am I scared because it's wrong for me — or because it's exactly what I want?
You've thought about it.
Talked about it.
Journaled about it.
Analysed it from every possible angle (I know you did my beautiful overthinking angel).
And somehow, the more you try to find the answer, the harder it becomes to hear your own voice underneath all the noise.
You want to be able to say this is it and this is not it.
I want you to imagine this as your reality…
You know what you want. Not necessarily your entire life purpose or ten-year plan. But when you look at the chapter directly in front of you, you know: this is where I want to go.
You know your next move. Maybe you don’t know Steps 2–47. But you know Step 1, and that's enough to move.
You have work that actually fits you. Work that uses your talent, gives you freedom and makes you want to wake up before your alarm goes off and launch yourself out of bed.
You feel excited about your life again. The sky looks exceptionally blue even though it’s raining. A car splashes water on your shoes but you just don’t care. Life’s good.
You feel direction. You wake up in the morning knowing what needs to be done today and why.
You trust yourself. You don't need five friends, your therapist, your mother, 100 tarot cards and ChatGPT to confirm that you’re making the right choice (been there, done that).
You can make a decision and actually stand behind it. Opinions of others become noise you can put aside.
You feel safe in uncertainty. You can say: I don't know where this will lead, but I trust myself and the universe enough to keep going.
That’s the woman you want to be, right?
THIS IS IT.
THIS IS IT is a private three-session experience designed to help you get out of the mental loop, uncover what you actually want and move toward a decision that feels like yours.
Three 90-minute private sessions · €300
The woman you want to be knows what she wants, but right now your mind is running in circles….
I know right now you are incredibly, insufferably, painfully self-aware. You know so much about yourself and yet you can’t seem to move forward.
Going back and forth.
One day you're certain you need to quit your job.
The next morning you're updating your CV.
You ask ChatGPT.
You make another pros-and-cons list.
You open Instagram and see a woman younger than you announcing the business, move, promotion or life change you've secretly been thinking about for the last two years and it makes you want to throw your phone out of the window.
Should I go on? Okay I will. →
You are a perfectionist. You overthink. You care too much about what other people think. And one of your hobbies is working yourself into the ground.
And the worst part of it, you probably know exactly why you are the way that you are.
You've talked about your childhood.
You've analysed your patterns.
You've read the books.
Maybe you've been to therapy. Tried breathwork. Yoga nidra. Yin. Meditation. Women's circles. Somatic work. Retreats. Read The Power of Now and maybe in all your despair, even the Holy Bible. But babe, even Jesus Christ can’t save your ass.
You've journaled page after page trying to get to the bottom of what the fuck it is you actually want.
And it has helped.
Because congratulations, you understand yourself better than you did five years ago.
But understanding yourself isn't the problem anymore.
The problem is that there are so many voices in the room now that you've lost track of which one is yours.
So what is it that you want?
You. Babe.
Not what makes the most sense.
Not what would make your parents get off your back.
Not what looks impressive.
Not what your therapist thinks would be healthy.
Not what your business coach thinks is strategic.
Not what the woman on Instagram says an “aligned woman” should want.
Not what fear says.
Not what ambition says.
Not what the version of you from five years ago decided your life was supposed to become.
Besides the noise,
What is it that you want?
And it would be such a gift from heaven if someone could just hand you the answers on a piece of paper, right? No, wrong.
Woman have asked me to dinner and sat in front of me with hopeful eyes. Yearning to get the answers they were looking for. So imagine if I would hand you a piece of paper that said:
QUIT YOUR JOB.
START THE BUSINESS.
DO THIS FIRST.
THIS IS YOUR PURPOSE.
For about half a second you would feel relieved. Happy even. Until that voice starts coming back.
But what if…? But how… But when…
And poof, you are back where you started because the answer was never yours.
My job is to stand beside you while we strip away enough noise for you to hear yourself again.
Because ultimately, I want you to leave me needing my opinion less.
Not more.
THIS IS IT.
Three 90-minute private sessions · €300
You bring the mess.
The job you can't decide whether to leave.
The business idea you can't stop thinking about.
The seventeen possible directions.
The dream you're embarrassed to admit you still want.
The fear that maybe you don't want the thing you've spent years trying to achieve.
The I don't fucking know.
Bring all of it.
It’s okay if it’s messy.
Inside THIS IS IT. this is what you’ll get
Three 90-minute sessions, my undivided laser focused attention.
SESSION 01 — Hear yourself
We cut through the noise and explore where you are, what feels off and what you actually want. We separate your own desires from expectations, fear and everything you think you should want.
In between — Morning Pages
Every morning, you write three uncensored pages. No analysing, no making it pretty. This creates space for thoughts, emotions and truths to surface that we can take into our next session. This is NOT journaling.
SESSION 02 — Say hi to resistance
One of my best friends. You’re gonna meet her and it’s not going to be pretty. Once we uncover what you want, we look at what's standing between you and it. Fear, limiting beliefs, expectations, old patterns — and the uncomfortable truths underneath them.
SESSION 03 — Move your juicy ass
We bring everything back into real life. You choose what you're moving toward and translate what we've uncovered into a concrete next step you can actually take.
So why work with me?
Because I’ve run so many circles around my own true desires, and I’ve pulled every trick in the hat you can imagine to ignore them. The self-abandonment, the book-a-one-way-ticket-to-an-island-and-feel-the-exact-same-but-with-palm-trees-as-a-view. I've burned out. I've stopped and started again. Did it thrice. And now i’ve finally found it.
I've learned something from having to come back to myself over and over again. We humans can spin beautiful stories that are not always based on the truth.
That's one of the things I'm very fucking good at seeing.
God gave me two gifts: my art and my gift to sense the truth.
I hear what you're saying.
But I'm also watching what happens underneath it.
The moment your energy changes.
The sentence you rush past.
The option you say you don't care about while your entire face lights up.
The elaborate explanation built around something painfully simple.
And then I'll bring you back to the thing you are avoiding.
You need someone beside you who isn't afraid of your truth. And with me, you don't need to make yourself pretty. If the truth is uncomfortable, we can look at it.
After the program, your success will look like this ↓
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A deep sense of clarity: The mental fog lifts and you can suddenly see what has been holding you back.
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A reconnection with your inner knowing: Instead of searching for answers outside yourself, you begin to trust the wisdom that already lives inside you.
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The courage to make aligned decisions: Whether it’s in your career, relationships, or personal direction, you feel more confident about the next step.
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Freedom from the mental loop: The constant overthinking softens, creating space for action and movement.
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A renewed sense of direction and energy: You leave the session feeling grounded, empowered, and ready to move forward.
Now, let’s manage some expectations.
I won't promise to reveal your life's purpose in three sessions.
In my experience, this will gradually become clear over time (although there are some lucky ones that receive it instantly in a vision).
I cannot promise that after three sessions you'll suddenly know exactly where you'll live, what work you'll do and what your life will look like ten years from now.
Sometimes there is fear that needs to be worked through.
Sometimes the next step is getting support that I can't provide.
What I can offer you is a place that encourages you to listen to yourself, and feel what it is that you truly want.
To separate desire from your own expectations.
Fear from a genuine no.
Your voice from everyone else's.
And to get closer to being able to say:
This is it.
This is not it.
And this is what I'm choosing now.
Your life doesn't need to make sense to everybody else before you're allowed to choose it.
Instant results from my amazing clients
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"It was a powerful experience, and I truly believe this therapy can unlock many paths for others as well. "
I recently had a session called “Find Your Next Step,” where we discovered what held me back in life and it was exactly that. I went in without much knowledge of what specific topic I wanted to work on, but Lianne guided me to uncover it. Even though I’ve only known her for a short time, her energy immediately made me feel at peace.During the session, I felt safe and supported, which allowed us to explore my fears deeply and understand what I need to move forward. It was a powerful experience, and I truly believe this therapy can unlock many paths for others as well. Highly recommended!
-Alex Quintero
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"I’ve made some pretty big realizations about my subconscious blockages that I didn’t even realize was there"
Lianne’s method is simple and to the point. She has a natural way of connecting and communicating with her clients. I’ve made some pretty big realizations about my subconscious blockages that I didn’t even realize was there until my session with Lianne. I highly recommend her and her somatic style of treatment. Take it from me who’s had many experiences working with others, she sets the bar high.
-Mochi -
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“My mind was doing circles — I felt stuck. Lianne helped me step out of that mental loop and drop into my body. Suddenly, I could feel: this is it, this is not it."
“My mind was doing circles. That was the problem — I felt stuck. Lianne asked me a few questions to see where my mind was at… and I realized I was just looping around the same thoughts. Then she said, ‘Let’s get into your body and see how you feel about certain things.’
We did a constellation — I had to feel different next steps. And suddenly, I knew: this is it, this is not it. She helped me step out of the whole thinking process. Whenever I went back into my head, she reminded me: no, step back — feel.At first, I wasn’t sure if she, as a woman, could really grasp what I was going through. But then I laughed, because it wasn’t about that at all. She helped me zoom out and see the bigger picture. Not as a man, not as a woman — just as a human being.
Honestly, it was an awesome session. I gained some very cool insights. And I’m truly thankful.”
— Dom, YouTube creator
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I took part in a “Find Your Next Step” session with Lianne. Before the session I was quite nervous, but Lianne immediately made me feel at ease. The atmosphere was very natural and genuine. Lianne approaches the session with openness and curiosity. Before you even realize it, you start arriving at insights. She responds beautifully to what you say and seems to analyze things quietly in the background. She adapts to what you need in that moment during the session. In essence, this session felt like a return to myself. Lianne reminds you of your own wisdom. It was a beautiful session that continues to resonate afterward, led by a truly wonderful person. Highly recommended.
-Emma Aerts - Studio Zonnebloem
This is for you if you…
✔️ You're done going around in circles.
✔️ Sense you already have the answer — you just can’t reach it yet
✔️ You're willing to discover that the answer might not be the one you hoped for.
✔️You're willing to look at the possibility that you are participating in the situation you're desperate to escape.
✔️You are willing to tell the truth when you'd rather give me the polished version.
This is not for you if you…
✖️ Are in emotional crisis or seeking mental health support
✖️ Want someone to fix it for you
✖️ You want me to predict your future.
✖️You want a spiritual authority to tell you when you'll meet your husband, what your purpose is or exactly which decision you're supposed to make.
✖️You want me to choose for you.
✖️You want insight without action.
✖️You want to spend three sessions explaining why everyone else is responsible for your life without ever becoming curious about your own part in it.
Now imagine the quiet…
You know what you're exploring. You know what you're saying no to. You know which fear deserves your attention and which voice doesn't deserve another fucking hour of your life. Someone gives you their opinion and you can hear it without immediately abandoning your own. Your mum asks what you're doing with your life. Your friend thinks you should choose differently. Instagram shows you seventeen other ways you could be living. And somewhere underneath it all, you know it doesn’t matter.
Because the only voice you listen to is the one of yourself.
You don't have the whole map. You don't need it. You know where you're going next. And for now…
THIS IS IT.
THIS IS IT is a three-session private experience for self-aware women who know something about their work or direction needs to change, but have become too caught between fear, expectations, overthinking and other people's opinions to hear what they actually want — designed to help them cut through the noise, uncover what feels true to them, and move toward a decision that is entirely their own.
Three 90-minute private sessions · Investment €300
Three sessions fully centred around you, what you want and the direction you want your life and work to move in.
4.5 hours of private 1:1 work to get clear on what you want, recognise what feels true to you and find the direction you want to move in next.
Body-based decision work to learn how your yes and no actually feel — so you can recognise the difference between this is scary and this isn't for me.
Grounding exercises to quiet the outside noise and create enough space to hear your own thoughts, feelings and desires clearly.
30–45 minutes of Morning Pages every day between sessions to give your uncensored thoughts, ideas and desires somewhere to land — and discover what keeps coming back when you stop editing yourself.
An easy tool to build a strong inner compass for recognising what belongs to you — your desires, your choices, your direction — and what you no longer need to carry with you.
Reiki during each session to support you in integrating what comes up and settling into the changes you're making.
More trust in your own decisions so you can hear other people's opinions without immediately questioning your own.
A concrete next move that feels like yours — so you leave knowing what you're choosing now and how you're going to start moving toward it.
I know what I want.
I trust what I feel.
I know what I'm choosing.
I know what I'm doing next.
FAQ
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THIS IS IT consists of three private 90-minute sessions focused on your work, business or direction. The sessions are tailored to what is happening for you rather than following a rigid one-size-fits-all curriculum.
You'll also commit to 30-minute morning pages between sessions so we can work with what surfaces outside the sessions.
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I love this question. The answer is ‘No’.
You may arrive with a very concrete question — Do I leave this job? Do I start the business? Which direction do I choose?
Or you may simply know that something isn't right anymore and have no fucking clue what comes next.
Both are welcome.
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No.
I may challenge you. Reflect something back. Ask questions you don't particularly want me to ask. Point out contradictions. Invite you to explore something differently.
But I am not going to take authority over your life.
The point is to strengthen your ability to make decisions that are yours — not make you better at following mine.
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No.
This work can create significant clarity, but human beings aren't vending machines. Sometimes the answer becomes clear quickly. Sometimes the work reveals another layer that needs attention first.
The aim is to get you closer to what feels true, understand what is obstructing you and identify an honest next step.
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No.
THIS IS IT is not psychotherapy, medical treatment or a replacement for professional mental-health care.
If what surfaces is outside the scope of what I can responsibly support you with, I'll tell you.
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Yes and no.
I use body-based practices and Reiki where appropriate, but the work stays grounded in your actual life and your actual choices.
(Mercury in retrograde is fun but also a good way to avoid responsibility in your life.)
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You'll receive the information you need to schedule your first session and prepare for our work together.
Then we start.